So, I hope everyone is ok with this, but I ran it by Rebecca and she said it would be fine, s0 I deleted my first post and since there seems to be a lull in posting right now, I'm going to try again. Y'all have inspired me so much that I have been working, working to learn to do post processing and I am so excited about the results, I wanted you to see how you had inspired me! And thanks Michelle for the suggestion to download the free trial of Lightroom, I am totally addicted! What a wonderful program!!
On Monday, we didn't have anything to do, so Abby agreed to get dressed up and we headed out to the gardens at our local University... This is one of my favorites...
So here is my Before...

Nikon D90
My new (yea!) 18-55 Nikon lens
Manual
ISO 800
f/9 at 1/160
And now the after...

I cropped it and applied Rebecca's vintage wash preset but then made some adjustments...
I pushed up the highlight recovery to bring back some of the details in her dress and adjusted the magenta to get more of the salmon color, instead of the pink in her dress. It's just a little too orange, but adding red brought too much red to her face, so I was willing to sacrifice on the color in her dress a little (I don't know how to balance those independently).
I also added back some of the green of the plants... I applied a little more vignetting and then I used the brush to add just a little bit more exposure to her face and her arm... I decreased the clarity a little to soften the look of the photo...
I would love any suggestions or ideas for things to try! Thanks again for all of your inspiration!!